Sunday, December 17, 2017

Status Anxiety

By Alain de Botton
Botton is at his best when he writes about his direct experiences. Lately, he's been philosophizing more and visiting less. This is still a good book though.
Why do we feel so anxious about our status? If we can be happy living simply, then why do we try to achieve so much?
There are sights of a life well lived. There are a signs of a life gone wrong. You can live simply, but if you don't have money, then if things go wrong, you can be in trouble.
Botton has a good chapter on the Bohemians. They were intensely passionate about being counter culture. Yet that drive slammed them into a wall. They appeared to have no purpose other than to mock culture, so when mainstream culture stopped caring for them, they had to become more extreme.  Some Bohemians tried to start their own farm. They intended to spend lots of time reading and making art however they didn't know how to grow food, so things went bad fast.
And that is the challenge of living simply—much of what we take for granted—security, health care, food, building materials, only exists because of much effort from many people. We can  try to live simply, but unless we want short lives, we need these complexities.  

Hillbilly Elegy.

By J.D. Vance
Through his biography Vance discuss the challenges that the Appalachian poor face. Ultimatly he asks his fellow hillbillies to stop blaming Obama or Bush, or companies, or whatever for their problems. The problems they face are caused just as much by their own poor choices—drug usage, violence, mocking  education. Only they can solve this for themselves.

He has a great comparison between the elite and the hillbillies and how elites put their children on the road to success. Elites teach their children to network. They teach them to control their emotions. They provide a stable place for their children to grow up. Hillbillies on the other hand seem to put pride first. If someone insults you, its OK to beat them up. Failure is deeply embarrassing. What you think others think of you, is very important.